My Findom Blog

After a short break I continue my Findom ABC. Today I want to share my thoughts about one of the worst behaviours that a sub can have, about ghosting. I know it from my  Goddess  but also from other people in the findom scene, that ghosting is a wide-spread behavior of subs. I don't mean the timewasters, that promise Goddesses to pay and never do it. Those scams will get their own post when we are at letter T. Today I talk about those people that pays a Goddess, serve her and from one second to the other they delete their account or block their Goddess or serve another Goddess suddenly. Fellow subs, are you serious about that? Think one second about your Goddess. They put so much effort in it, they try to build a relationship with you and then you just run away without any explanation? Don't do that! Even worser are those subs that still keep the account open and just don't reply any more. Goddesses are humans to (and much better ones than we beta boys)! They will maybe wor...

I have written at the beginning that I will sometimes write about two terms in my Findom ABC. When it comes to letter F today there are much more terms that I could have written. Its the letter of Findom, this fascinating world that I love so much, it's the letter of Femdom where my journey into Findom starts but I decided to write about two different terms today. Female Supremacy and Filipinas. Female Supremacy I know nowadays there are also a lot of male Cashmasters in the Findom scene, and I would never say that it's not okay. My  Alpha  is a Cashmaster too. But for me Findom is still one of the strongest expressions of Female Supremacy. Dommes own us subs and we give them our money. It's a total exchange of power. Much to long the world was ruled by (mostly white) men. Of course we still live in a world where males are much to strong, women are still doing the chores in the most families, the most leaders in the world are male. But Findom is a step in the right dire...

Every slave is not born as a perfect slave. Of course there are some that have more experience than others and some are more submissive than others. But every slave still needs education from his Goddess. Because every Goddess expect something else from their subs. For one Goddess it's maybe important that the slave do tasks to amuse Her, for another Goddess it's maybe most important that a sub learn to respect all women, and so on. Every sub needs to learn from his Goddess. I really adore my  Goddess , She is not just the most beautiful human being I have ever seen, She is also inspiring, intelligent, noble and I love to get educated by Her. She isn't educating me like a teacher, but She let me feel what She likes and what She doesn't like, with the time I learn more and more what She expects from a slave. And the most important lesson for every slave is to forget what he wants, he should just always think what She wants.

Devotion, every sub will be devoted to his Superior. There are Dommes that established their own religion, there are subs that has an altar for their Superior  where they need to put pictures of their Goddess and maybe a candle. I address my  Superior  as Madame plus Her name. But of course She is also a Goddess for me. Every day I kneel for atleast 10 minutes and think about my Goddess, how wonderful and amazing She is. Unfortunately I can't put a shrine or altar somewhere in my home because my wife would not be amused, but that doesn't change my devotion for Madame. Devotion is more than just symbols. It's about showing your Goddess your love and devotion. Show Her how much you adore Her, sacrifice for Her, work hard for Her, put Her needs always first... There are thousand ways of showing your Goddess your devotion. Even when you know that your Goddess knows that you are devoted to Her, don't forget to show it to Her!

In my opinion, every sub should be denied to have an orgasm. He should live a chaste life for his Owner. As there can be no 24/7 monitoring of the sub, the best way to control the sub is a chastity device like a penis cage. Unfortunately there are a lot of subs that can't carry a chastity device. I have the same problem, I am married, so I can't carry one and I also need to sleep sometimes with my wife. I am now 2 weeks under the power of my  Goddess , I am not allowed to masturbate and I follow that rule of course. But once I already needed to have sex with my wife. I don't want it, but what can I say to my wife? "Sorry Madame doesn't want that we have sex." It's not possible. Madame and I have set a rule for that, I need to report Her immediately after that we had sex and I need to pay a fine for it, that fine will increase if it happens more than twice a month. It's a good compromise in the current situation, but honestly I hope that one day I will ...

Beta Yesterday I wrote about the Alpha, today about the beta. Biological we are both man, but when you look at an Alpha guy and a beta guy you can easily see, that you cannot really call a beta a man. I cannot give a general definition of a beta male, but I will write what makes me a beta male. First it's the most obvious thing, my tiny dick. It cannot be called a dick, it's very small, about 3 centimetres and it could never please a woman. Having such a thing between your legs doesn't boost your self confidence and I guess woman have a sensor for that. When I enter a room, no Lady will look at me, when an Alpha enters the room they have an aura of self confidence and masculinity. It happens that I talk with Ladies, for example at work, that I haven't seen before and two days later when we meet again, they can't remember me. I am getting nervous when I talk to beautiful Ladies, I have problems to look them in their face, because I feel so pathetic in their presenc...

Today I will start my Findom ABC . Every day I will write about another term, or sometimes about two or more terms. Of course I start with the letter A, and I will start with the two terms Alpha and Asian Dommes. Alpha There are a lot of Findommes that has a boyfriend or a husband. That isn't a surprise  because they are wonderful and amazing Ladies and of course there will be a lot of boys falling in love with them. And some (I guess the majority of Goddesses) expect from us subs that we adress them as Alpha or with other respectful titles and that we show the same respect to them as to the Goddess. I must honestly say that when I started with findom, I was not really in that whole Alpha thing. I am a strong believer in Female Supremacy and the thought of showing respect to another man didn't really attract me. Although I also know that I have no other choice, because the rules are made by the Goddesses not by us subs. My opinion about that changed totally when I saw t...

I am a Finsub. My Superior is  Goddess Destiny . I am thankful that I am permitted to write that blog and that I am allowed to write my thoughts down. In this post I want to tell my story, how I become a finsub and how I ended as slave of my Goddess. I was a Finsub before I knew that Finsubs exist. My first girlfriend let me pay everything for her, I was her taxi driver, because I had already a driving lisence and she not. I drove her whenever she needed me, later when she also had her lisence she left me, for a real man. I haven't realised at that time, that I am not a real man, that I am a beta male. Later when I compared my dick to other dicks I realised more and more that it will be hard for me to find a girl and I went more and more often to professional dominatrixes. I have done that for years, I went there, paid the amount the Domme charged, get what I wanted (satisfaction) and went home. After some years I realised that that is not what I am searching for, because I am no...

This is my first post in my new Findom Blog. First I want to thank my Goddess ( https://twitter.com/DestinyxGoddess ) that SHE permitted me to write that blog. Then I want to apologise, English is not my native language and so I say sorry for all the mistakes I make. I will write in that blog about two things. About my experiences as slave and about my thoughts about the findom world. My motivation to write this blog is, that there is running so much through my mind, but because I can't talk to a lot of people about my life in Findom I will wright my thoughts down.