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Findom ABC - C Chastity

In my opinion, every sub should be denied to have an orgasm. He should live a chaste life for his Owner. As there can be no 24/7 monitoring of the sub, the best way to control the sub is a chastity device like a penis cage. Unfortunately there are a lot of subs that can't carry a chastity device. I have the same problem, I am married, so I can't carry one and I also need to sleep sometimes with my wife. I am now 2 weeks under the power of my Goddess, I am not allowed to masturbate and I follow that rule of course. But once I already needed to have sex with my wife. I don't want it, but what can I say to my wife? "Sorry Madame doesn't want that we have sex." It's not possible. Madame and I have set a rule for that, I need to report Her immediately after that we had sex and I need to pay a fine for it, that fine will increase if it happens more than twice a month. It's a good compromise in the current situation, but honestly I hope that one day I will be free for my Owner and be able to get locked in a penis cage. I really felt bad, after I slept with my wife, I felt like I have cheated my Owner, although She knows that it can happen and we have a rule for that.

Why do I think that chastity is important for a sub? I think it helps the sub to become a much better sub, males, even when they are betas are so controlled by their sexual desires, when you live a chase life you will learn to priorities the needs of your Owner more and more. I was able to talk to a guy that lives in chastity since 5 years already. He is married to his owner. Before she puts him a penis cage on, they lived a more or less normal life, he was egoistic, his needs was always a bit more important than her needs. He said that this changed totally after she put him in chastity. He thinks just about her needs, he is obedient and do all the chores, bring her flowers and other small gifts as often as possible. He is always thinking how can he make the life of his wife more comfortable. He is allowed to come once a year on his birthday, he sees that as a great gift.

It's my dream that one day I will have my last orgasm and wear a chastity device for my Goddess from that day on.

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