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Findom ABC - G Ghosting

After a short break I continue my Findom ABC. Today I want to share my thoughts about one of the worst behaviours that a sub can have, about ghosting. I know it from my Goddess but also from other people in the findom scene, that ghosting is a wide-spread behavior of subs. I don't mean the timewasters, that promise Goddesses to pay and never do it. Those scams will get their own post when we are at letter T. Today I talk about those people that pays a Goddess, serve her and from one second to the other they delete their account or block their Goddess or serve another Goddess suddenly. Fellow subs, are you serious about that? Think one second about your Goddess. They put so much effort in it, they try to build a relationship with you and then you just run away without any explanation? Don't do that! Even worser are those subs that still keep the account open and just don't reply any more. Goddesses are humans to (and much better ones than we beta boys)! They will maybe worry about you, how can they know if you had for example a car accident or are just an ashole that ghosted her?

You owe your Goddess at least an explanation! Of course it can happen that a sub isn't feeling well in a relationship any more. In that case I find it very practical to set a rule about that in a slave contract. Like my Goddess and I have a clear rule how I can end the relationship (I will of course never make use of that paragraph). But sometimes a sub will just need a break. In that case my advice is, talk to your Goddess! I guess 99% of the Goddesses will understand when you give them a reason why you need a break! When you ghost her she will maybe never take you back, and if she does, for sure she will not have the same trust in you like before! She can't never be sure that you won't do it again. So please talk, talk, talk. Communication is the key!

At the end just a few thoughts what Goddesses can do to avoid that their subs are ghosting. I guess you can never avoid that totally, but you can lessen the risk with two things. 1. Communication, talk to your subs sometimes, it's much easier to ghost someone who is never talking to you than a person that talks to you, that shows that she cares about her property. 2. Don't let your subs have an orgasm, after the orgasm there are 5 to 10 minutes where it can happen that the sub thinks with his brain not with his dick any more, and he will maybe think if it's right what he is doing, to serve a superior Lady. Of course it is right, but some will have the wrong answer in that weak moment and ghost. If possible put them in permanent chastity, if not just forbid them to have an orgasm.

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